What women Want ..........

Even the most dominating woman wants to be dominated. The feeling that someone can take your hand, keeps a finger on your lips and picks you up to bring you face to face to pleasant surprise is out of this world.

Every women wants to be swiped off her feet, and each would want that to be done differently. I wonder in how many ways that is possible.

The feeling that someone is taking control of your life can be disgusting. A strong woman will keep on introspecting how on earth is she even letting her life to be controlled by someone else. More disgusting is the feeling when the person driving it, is new to her life.


But, the feeling brings a sense of being cared, being ruled..being asked to sit back and enjoy the ride of the life. There is a difference, very thin difference between being ruled and being dominated. Taken over completely not even knowing you have been can be mesmerizing. Being asked to shut up coz HE doesn't care and want to hear what you want, is being ruled.


Yet she wants someone to come and ask her...... MY LOVE, and WHAT WOULD YOUR WISH BE ?

Surprises are best charmers for a lady, not to mention THEY HAVE to be PLEASANT. From fulfilling her smallest wish which she casually mentioned at the dinner table, to actually staying hungry for many months and saving money for her first Diamond Jewellery on her Birthday.


Birthday's are other days you could slide in the best you have to surprise the lady. Unfortunately birthdays are sometimes the worst days in a girl's life. For someone who can turn that to a day to remember till life, would be right up there as a man for her.

There are a lot many ways that BOY can be a MAN for a girl. May be the way you make her feel protected, may be the way you "slide in" for the first time, may be the way you kiss her, or may be the way you take a stand for yourself, her and others.

There are many more and much more simpler ways for a MAN to be a "MAN" for her. No woman is hunting for a perfect "MAN" but a "MAN" enough for her to give in everything she has, including her dreams to him.

The most important however is the STAND. Will he stand next to me is the first or may be the only repeated question she would ask herself. If she doesn't get the "YES", he isn't the man enough. No matter how wonderful he is in the bed, no matter how helpful he can be,no matter how handsome he looks. For a woman those are all secondary, She wants to be embraced and protected by the world.

Even if a stranger rescues her from her suffering while her so called boyfriend left her, that Stranger would take all her respect in that one moment and will even hear a "YES" if he proposes her in that very moment. Such is the meaning of taking a STAND.

She would hate someone who would never take his own decision and say YES to her, HE according to her will never reach anywhere. She would hate someone who would never ask what she wishes ( even if it means she says YES each time ), but she would want to be asked.

She wants to be made to feel special, She wants to be taken care of, SHE WANTS TO BE DOMINATED, she wants to say to the world, I MARRIED HIM and not the other way around.

If a woman shows that she is interested in you, think yourself as the most lucky in this world. If she flirts with other guys in front of you, DROP DOWN....She is madly in love with you. If she talks about other men to make you jealous, believe me it's hurting her as much, or may be much more.

The way a woman would try to hint you that she is interested and loves you madly can be complicated. Flirting with other men right when you can see, kissing someone else while you were looking at her, letting someone take her for a ride when you know she could have very easily stopped every bit of it is / can be her way to tell you ......GODDAMN IDIOT !!! Can't you see I am doing this all to tell you, I LOVE YOU.

That kiss wouldn't mean anything to her, she wouldn't even care where he is touching her. All she cares about is that you are looking that she is being touched "there" by other man. And the pick of who it will be ( the more idiot out of you two ) is also carefully done. Not just anyone would do, he has to be the one you would hate too.

Chivalry is still alive, VERY MUCH !!! Opening the door of the car, allowing her to pass first, standing when she comes in or leaves, taking her hand while she gently steps down the stairs, bowing while you take her hand and the kiss...... smelling good, dressing well.....Ohhh there are many. And yes, not to look at her cleavage while she is talking to you. This one is hard to maintain though :)


Getting into bad books of a lady is a BIG MISTAKE. You would never want to mess up with a woman, more importantly someone who is STRONG. MEN fear WOMEN more than other MEN in terms of harm they can cause. Every men knows what a woman he betrays is capable of harming. Honestly !!! the guy has no idea, not even a tenth of what she can do.

STATUARY WARNING : DON'T PLAY, IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE, and most of the times it is the over confidence that drowns you.

I am no expert with women, NOT EVEN A NOVICE, haven't interacted with many through out my life, nor have ready books or watched women oriented movies, but to understand a women you don't need all of it.

You need to have a compassionate heart and a pure soul and a pair of eyes that can look beyond, a mind that can think above the obvious. Or is it too unrealistic.........

Perhaps, you need to be GOD....coz WHAT WOMEN WANTS....... IS WHAT DRIVES THIS WORLD, and once that is known, all will just come to a halt.