The Other side

It's not impossible to understand women, and its not possible to know them completely.

Honestly, there isn't a need to do that. You see, women know they are complex set of minds. Sometimes they can't understand themselves and totally don't expect men to know them.

What's possible is to pick up traits, signs, gestures. No need to read thoughts, just read the reactions. No need to predict the action, just read the behavior. No need to remember the taste, just remember distinction. No need to remember the fragrance, just remember the brand.

Women are as much human as Men are. And believe it or not they treat Men to be equally complex.

Being with a woman does teach you tons of it automatically (if your ear and eyes open). There are straight signs, evidence lying right out and clear words being said, if Men are ready to pick them up.

Women know about intimacy as much as we do. They fantasize, they chat naughty, feel horny, talk dirty as much as we do. Still men are surprised when it all comes at their face.

"Whoa! where does that come from?", goes the first reaction. A woman that knows how to get pleasure is still considered outrageous and men with similar traits are just considered "boys".

Men are fools to consider women to be from different planet. They were born and built right here...on this very planet and they have all the symptoms of an indigenous crop.

People who consider them as a human being still do better with them. People who consider them dummy for pleasure aren't going to be pleased after few days.

Consider a wedding.

Man and his Lady passing every day, preparing for the blessed day
and while they are still not together, they spend last possible days with families or friends.
Now the bloke might booze out nights with friends thinking it could be a while he gets them back, the girl would live her entire life till date through her stuff.

She would go through old photos, her room, her friends, her belongings etc. The build up for a day where both are going to wed is so completely different. It could be all fun for one and horrid for another.

Infact, if the girl gets cold feet, wardrobe malfunction, arrangement disorder or may be the bridesmaid fell ill at the last moment on her wedding..she would never have happy memories of the day.

While the bloke had a Thai masseur coming over, had friends hogging over all day. Took his merry time to shower and get ready...treated like a king that day. His day's been full of things marking this day special for him.

Just imagine most important day in their lives and both of them remember it for so different reasons. That's the key to spend a life with a woman. One should always always remember .... that woman would pick different moments from the day than you. If you made love on your first date and had awesome time, she may not have. One of them doesn't even have sweet memories from it (more likely to be the girl). She might have enjoyed the kiss instead or the taxi ride home. She might have enjoyed the food while you might have enjoyed looking down her cleavage.

Things to remember

Women are planners, thinkers and mind driven. They would try to argue everything with their mind. They can't even accept anything inside their head unless it allows it, agrees it and backs it with a reason.

Its something like, "So Mr. Mind, what do you say? Was he really playing golf all day?"

Mr Mind: "I think he was, the shoes are muddy, the collar's black, he has a bit of tan. The lad must be telling the truth"

When Men think they escaped with a lie and pat their backs to be the ultimate con machine who could get passed his wife anytime with anything, they make the biggest fool out of themselves.

Women know when we are lying, they allow us to enter the house that time not because they bought our lie, but because they are still trying to figure out or buying time to determine the exact reason, why her man lied.

They will juggle with few options and will try to pick signs to match the closest one. If they are satisfied with it, you will never hear about it. If they aren't, you should run as fast as you can.

Every women as a book called "My Allowed Excuses and circumstances"

Women also know when Men mean the word "I Love you". They would know by your touch, if you are really there. They could confront you, but would decide otherwise. This is because they are still deciding on to "let him have it" OR "He is depressed" OR "Work Pressure" OR some other reasons as long as they exists in her "BOOK".

A Man should never feel completely in control of his woman. A woman only gives you
the control she wants you to have.

If she wants you to have her body, she will.
If she wants you to have her money, she will.
If she wants to enter her personal space, she will.

Never ever should a man think he controlled his access to her.
Biggest mistake buddy.

Women are wonderful, if you know how to be around one.
Women are wonderful, if you know how to make love to them.
Women are wonderful, if you have really really won her heart.

But Honestly...
Women are wonderful, if they decide to be wonderful to you.

So never think you have her, coz you have her only when she wants to be yours.

poner mi dormir

I grew up understanding people. I love people around and feel good when I touch them with words or my actions. I like to do things that would leave an impact on a human, something that I too am quite in love with.

A soothing voice in the night, that could put you sleep just by falling in your ears. A night where you can’t remember words you heard but you dozed off to the best sleep of your life.

A mere touch of skin and you have volts you can’t count. Gloomy eyes that glitter when they see you. Impact that is undefined and yet so cosmic that it makes you believe you live around humans.

My best friend Kim’s hello tells me what kind of mood he is in and at times how troubled he is too.

I undoubtedly search and luckily get these moments, where I feel human. I crave and live for feelings that make me a living person.

I have about 7 different birds chirping every morning around my house. I have the most beautiful sunrise every morning right in front of my bedroom. I have the love of my life right here and I can hear her guffaw around the house.

Life is all about understanding how is it to be alive and be human. I believe in following extraordinary and astounding level of human influence in my life.

I worship people who time and time again make me believe if there’s anything they could have made to make this planet looked more human they would have done it.

Micheal Jackson, Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar, James Brown, Roger Fedrer and Michael Schumacher. I want to see them once in my life doing what they have done their entire life to touch so many humans.

Too bad I couldn’t have MJ performing in front of my eyes, despite getting the tickets this time. Too bad it rained when Schumacher was to race at Wembley. This year I am going to get tickets for Centre Court Wimbledon and definitely see Sachin Play at Lords.

Bu,

the idea is not to hear the Mozart playing or see the Nataraja’s dance, the idea is to feel the life part in it.

The idea is to see the rose in your garden and not be just the owner but feel happy that you nurtured something to grow up so beautiful.

The idea is to touch the wind and feel it on your face and not forget that nature has its own way of making things beautiful.

The idea is to be madly in love with someone so much that you know there exists a person in this world whose touch will give you Goosebumps, whose voice will put you to peace, whose words will make you alive and whose eyes will melt your heart, right that very instant when you meet them.

The idea is to close your eyes and see the world.

The idea my friend….is to always be around.

Feel the Feel

I am a heart person. I do things only when I feel. I can’t listen to music in low volume. Something as beautiful as music has to be felt. It has to be felt by the entire body and not just earlobes. I hate people who use earplugs. They, as I believe, dishonor music.

Defamed in neighborhood but I just can’t listen in low volume. Notes have to strike your body. They induce rhythm, they induce pleasure, pain, ecstasy……. Trance.

Even if I am hearing Jagjit Singh, I would pump up the volume. Yeah….romantic or metal, I can never listen to them unless my panes are shattering and the neighbors complaining.

I use my heart my feel in everything I do.Listening to heart keeps me at peace, happy and utterly satisfied.

I have done horrible things in my life so far. They have pained and unduly created lines around, but I never regret my decision. For me a decision either feels good or doesn’t.

I use my brain only to answer 2 + 2. It should not be disturbed otherwise. I liaise with people I connect my heart to….something like Avatar…but only a heart to heart bond.

I am not completely impulsive, unless it’s shopping of course. But would state, I do things, because I feel like doing them.

I find it impossible to decide right or wrong. I can’t advise anyone if they come up to me for a help. Can’t think logically, unless am solving a mensa or maybe klueless.

And that’s the only reason that I find Love to be the most amazing thing to happen to a human. It is such a strong feeling that your hear listen the world from your eyes and touch with your words.

Love makes everything around feel so amazing and it makes you do so many things without you realizing or deciding if it’s right or wrong. Now that’s what someone like me would understand and prefer doing.

All my life and till what ever is left I bide to be impulsive and no brain person.

I am very picky when it comes to who’s going to be in my space and periphery of it. I don’t believe in first impression but believe in first vibe. I need vibes to make be comfortable with someone. I don’t know if a person is right or wrong, but I definitely can tell if s/he will be right or wrong.

Just don’t feel right, sometimes. Do we?

There would indeed be a lot of people who fall in the same category and most of my friends are.

My friend and I, would hop on our racing bikes and make a figure of eight between moving cars. Anyone driving behind us will see two bikes racing parallel and intersecting every vehicle. We always make sure to overtake the vehicle from left and right at the same time. Leaves him shocked and numb.

I just love the fact that for an instance, I just made someone to forget everything and feel this surprise.

It does wakes up some sleepy humans. The idea is to show that what a heart feels is so much stronger to what a mind says.

I believe..you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I believe .. Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. What you feel of others and life does.

I live for moments that touch the heart so bad that it makes you numb. You might kiss 100 times a day but sometimes her hand on your chest will feel like melting your whole skin. When you remember someone so strongly and just then they call, or when someone don't speak on the phone and you know its them because you can feel it.

Just yesterday on my way to office, there were a flock of nurses, may be trainees but neatly dressed trying to cross the road.


I know the area and right next to the spot is an Army Base Hospital. In Salutation I screeched and offered them to cross. All the nurses ran as if this the only chance for them to outrun the chicken and reach the other end.

One of them, nearest to my car, turned back smiled and said Thank you. She couldn’t see me through tinted doors, I couldn’t hear her with the panes up. She never knew who stopped for them,

But Honestly it felt really Good.

Playful

CRAIC

Is there ever a time when there’s nothing missing in life? I was recently a part of a family event where names were struck off of the living list. Something or the other keeps missing as days go by.

Sometimes it’s the entire person.

I have only two biggest fears in my life, some thing that shivers me timbers absolutely to the center of my body.

A speeding truck in rear view mirror

Death of someone I love.

On St. Patrick’s Day, I saw this Irish couple, must be in their late 50’s dancing to the famous Irish bagpipes music. I guess it was the fiddle that got them going. The lad had a Heineken, an Irish Hat, while the lady had Green ( Irish Flag ) hat, dressed in white and green and holding his hand, of course she had beer too.

The entire crowd was looking at them, while they danced in their own passion without splashing the beer out of the glass. A typical Irish dance, remember Kate Winslet in Titanic’s 3^rd Class deck :)

I felt that very moment; …they have nothing missing in their life. To have 500 people or more looking at you while you dance with your lady to an Irish tune. I don’t think they feel anything else than pure bliss. Or may be they are too oblivious to the entire world. Just two of them lost in themselves.

Well, 50 something and having beer on National Day on a gathering of thousands. Dancing to country’s folk song, I say their life is complete.

Two years after I bought my first house, I am buying my second. I go the Nike’s top most gym in the city and play couple’s tennis on the weekend.

I drive a smart car and lead a team of 16. I sleep happy in bed every night next to my beautiful wife. I celebrate every moment I live in and I have no intentions to madly run after goals in life.

I want to live my life just as it is now, forever. What I have right now, I never aimed I would achieve in mere 1.5 years of marriage. For me, it really doesn’t matter what I achieve in life today, or tomorrow. What matters is, if I made her smile for sometime today.

Every single second that passes now, I look at her and realize it was a good decision not to run after things which you can have may be few months later.

Life is a lot worth enjoying instead. Just like that Irish couple, I feel nothing is missing in my life and nothing will. I am running after things or spending sleepless night thinking how to add more cash in bank.

I spend my time living with my soulmate, staying happy and content and things will fall by and even if they don’t who cares.

Life right now, is absolute craic.

I close my eyes at night, and I ask myself……….. What’s the rush?